The First Steps You Take Can Shape the Rest of the Case
Being served with divorce papers is stressful. Emotions run high, and the desire to either fight back or shut down is completely normal. But what you do next matters—a lot. Mistakes made in the early stages of a divorce case can have long-lasting financial and legal consequences.
Whether you are shocked by the filing or saw it coming, avoid these common pitfalls that can weaken your case before it truly begins.
Watch: The Cost of Ignoring a Divorce Filing
The video above highlights Taylor’s story. He chose to ignore the divorce papers, assuming the situation would resolve itself. Instead, the court issued a default judgment, giving his spouse nearly everything she asked for. Only after losing his rights did Taylor take action.
A quick legal response changed his outcome, but not everyone gets a second chance. Your best move is acting early and avoiding the mistakes below.
Mistake 1: Ignoring the Papers
It may feel easier to wait or do nothing, especially if emotions are raw. But in Pennsylvania, failing to respond within the required time can lead to a default judgment. This allows the court to grant your spouse’s requests without your input. You could lose your share of marital property, financial support, or parenting time.
Learn more at What to Do After Being Served with Divorce Papers in Pennsylvania.
Mistake 2: Letting Emotions Drive Decisions
Anger, guilt, or fear can cloud good judgment. Emotional reactions often lead people to overshare, make threats, or agree to unfair terms just to move on. Divorce is legal and financial at its core. Every decision should be made with a clear understanding of your rights and long-term goals.
Mistake 3: Failing to Get Legal Advice Early
Some people believe they can handle the early stages without an attorney. But one wrong step such as missing a deadline, saying the wrong thing, or not protecting your assets can shift the case against you. Speaking with a lawyer right away helps you understand the process and avoid preventable damage.
Mistake 4: Hiding or Moving Assets
It may feel tempting to protect yourself by shifting money, selling property, or hiding accounts. But this behavior can backfire. Courts look closely at financial conduct during divorce. Being transparent is not only expected—it’s legally required.
For more on protecting assets the right way, visit How You Can Protect Assets During Divorce.
Mistake 5: Failing to Document Everything
From text messages to bank statements, documentation matters. Keeping records of communication, financial activity, and parenting involvement can help protect your interests throughout the case.
Work with an Experienced Divorce Attorney
At Petrelli Previtera, our legal team helps clients avoid missteps and build a strong foundation from day one. Whether you just received divorce papers or want to prepare for what’s next, we can help you move forward with clarity and confidence.
Explore our Philadelphia Divorce Lawyer page for additional insights and support.
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