How Maryland’s Best Interest Standard Protects Children’s Stability
- Stability is a core value in Maryland custody and property orders that affect children.
- Parenting plans, family-use property, and support orders work together to reduce disruption.
- Specific written terms prevent conflict and protect routines.
The best interest standard
Judges consider many factors to decide what arrangement supports each child’s physical, emotional, and developmental needs. Continuity of school, proximity to community support, safety, and each parent’s ability to meet daily needs are common themes.
Parenting plans that preserve routines
- Consistent school day and bedtime schedules
- Clear exchange times and locations
- Decision making for education, health care, and activities
- Holiday and vacation calendars arranged well in advance
Housing stability through family-use property
When minor children are involved, courts may grant one parent temporary exclusive use of the marital home and other family-use property for up to three years after divorce. The goal is to keep children in familiar surroundings while parents transition to separate households. This does not change ownership.
Who pays the mortgage during exclusive use
Orders should assign responsibility for mortgage, taxes, insurance, utilities, and routine repairs. Courts often require the parent in possession to cover day to day expenses while larger carrying costs are allocated in a fair way. Clarity prevents missed payments and credit damage.
Financial orders that support stability
- Child support that aligns with the parenting schedule and children’s needs
- Temporary support to cover housing and transportation during transitions
- Health insurance and unreimbursed medical cost provisions
Planning for change
Children’s needs evolve. Good orders build in review points and clear steps for modifications if school, health, or schedules change. Parents who plan for future transitions tend to avoid conflict and protect routines.
Practical steps for parents
- Document school, medical, and community ties for each child.
- Use a detailed parenting plan and keep communication respectful and organized.
- Create a simple budget that covers housing, utilities, and insurance responsibilities.
- Plan for the end of exclusive use with refinance, buyout, or sale timelines if relevant.
Frequently asked questions
Do courts try to keep kids in the same school
When it serves the child’s best interests, judges look for ways to preserve school and routines.
Can a parent stay in the home after divorce
Yes. A court may grant temporary exclusive use of the home and other family-use property to support stability for minor children.
Who pays housing costs during exclusive use
The order should assign costs. Day to day expenses are often paid by the parent in possession while mortgage, taxes, and insurance are allocated fairly.
How can we reduce conflict over schedules
Use a detailed parenting plan with specific exchange times, school-year schedules, and clear decision making rules.
What happens when exclusive use ends
The temporary right expires. The court may order sale, permit a buyout, or enter other equitable orders. Planning ahead prevents disruption.
Talk with a Maryland family law attorney
Our team helps parents secure orders that protect their children’s stability during and after divorce. Schedule a consultation to map out a plan that fits your family.

