Why do you need an initial consultation?

When you need information regarding any aspect of family law, please consider scheduling an initial consultation. Knowing how the law applies to your specific case will provide you with the appropriate direction that you need in what can be a difficult time.

What happens when you first call the office?

Interested clients call my office at (215) 523-6900 for a brief telephone consultation wherein we discuss the parties involved and the basic issues. At this time, we will be able to check for any potential conflicts so you will need to provide your name and the other party’s name, as well as your county and other basic information that we will require from you.

How long is the initial consultation?

These meetings usually take between about an hour, depending on the complexity of the case.

What information will be discussed at the initial consultation?

The purpose of the meeting is for me to obtain the necessary background facts and then tailor my advice to your specific situation.  More detailed information means more detailed advice for you.

I start out the meeting requesting basic biographical information, such as names, addresses and birthdates. We discuss your income and earning history and the other party’s income and earning history.

If there are children involved, you will need to supply their names and birthdates, as well as be prepared to discuss the issues.  For example, for a child support case, I would need to know if there are any extraordinary expenses, such as tuition, daycare, health insurance, medical needs, etc.  For a custody case, we will begin to discuss the major issues and preferred schedules.

If this is a divorce case, we will discuss the assets and debts of both parties, no matter who holds the title.  We will also discuss what assets or debts are considered marital and what may be considered non-marital. Accordingly, no matter when an asset was purchased, or when a debt was incurred, be prepared to discuss it.

What information do you receive at the initial consultation?

Once you provide me with the background, I will explain how family law issues work in your specific county.

If this is a divorce case, I will explain the procedure for filing for divorce (or answering a divorce that your spouse may have filed).  We will discuss the legal significance of what is included in the divorce complaint and how the court grants a divorce.  Since divorces vary from the simple to the complex, I will explain the procedure I would anticipate in your specific case, and the “best-case” and “worst-case” scenarios that I would predict, based on the information that you provide.

For a child support or spousal support case, we can discuss the income and earning capacity of both parties and I can estimate a support award, based on the child support guidelines.  We will also discuss how these figures are calculated and what you can do to make sure your award is fair.

For custody cases, we will discuss current issues with your child or children and how you would like the case resolved.  I will explain how procedure works in your county and what steps you can take to protect yourself.  Sometimes, people are unaware of the many different options available to resolve custody issues so we can tailor a plan for your situation.

You may receive a reference packet of information I have designed that explains the law and your rights, including forms, helpful hints, worksheets and brochures for other useful services.

What should you bring to the initial consultation?

The more detailed information you can provide, the more specific advice I can provide. That being said, some people just do not have access to all of the necessary information for a variety of reasons (e.g. their spouse took care of the finances, their spouse is secretive, the other party refuses to provide it, you do not want to alert the other party that you are looking into these matters). If you do not have documentation – do not worry about it. We can get it later.


  • Marriage Certificate (Ordering Info: Philadelphia marriage certificates; Other Pennsylvania Counties)
  • Any Court Documents You Have Received (Divorce Complaint, Letter from an Attorney, etc.)
  • Recent Paystubs for you and your spouse
  • Recent Tax Returns (at least two years) Information on your house (mortgage statement, value of house, real estate tax bill, etc.)
  • Automobile Information (how is it titled, how much is owed, how much is the payment)
  • Bank and Investment Statements
  • Retirement Account/Pension Plan Statements
  • List of Valuable Personal Property (jewelry, artwork, collections)
  • Vacation Homes
  • Credit Card Statements
  • Personal Loan Statements
  • Student Loan Statements
  • Written Agreements between you and your Spouse
  • Insurance Information: Health, Life, Automobile
  • Picture of opposing party if service of process will be an issue

Support Cases

  • Recent Paystubs for you and the other party
  • Tax Returns (preferably for the previous three years)
  • Health Insurance Information
  • Extraordinary Expenses: tuition, daycare, camp, extracurricular activities

Custody Cases

  • Work Schedules
  • Distances between various points: school-work-daycare-homes
  • Children’s Schedules (activities, etc.)
  • Your preferred custody schedule
  • Holidays celebrated (Including religious holidays)

Cases Where There Have Already Been Court Proceedings

  • All court documents/orders/pleadings
  • Correspondence
  • A Printout of All Docket Entries – This can be obtained at the clerk’s office.

Retaining This Office

Many times, clients decide to retain my office during the course of the initial consultation. At that time, I will be able to quote you a retainer fee to get started on the case. Retainer fees vary depending on the complexity of the case and the number of issues involved.


Philadelphia County requires a completed Domestic Relations Information Sheet.

An Income and Expense Statement can help you develop a budget and may be required in certain support matters in Pennsylvania.

A New Jersey Case Information Statement is required in almost all New Jersey family law matters.  It is also a useful form for you to note income, expenses, assets and debts.